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Friday, December 18, 2009

Kind words mean more than printed Christmas card - By Don Gale

This following article by Don Gale was originally published on Thursday, December 17 2009 in the Deseret News.  It was a good read for me, so I wanted to re-share it with you.

Enjoy!






Kind words mean more than printed Christmas card

By G. Donald Gale
Published: Saturday, Dec. 5, 2009 12:16 a.m. MST

Give the gift of words this holiday season — kind words.

Words form the foundation for all thought, all relationships, all emotions ... not only the foundation but the walls, the floor and the ceiling. Too often, we toss words around carelessly, as if all words carried the same value. But some words are like darts, some are like cannonballs, some are like feathers and some are like trophies.

Choose the trophy words. They build better thoughts, better relationships and better emotions.

We hear too many angry words. They are the wrecking ball of thoughts, relationships and emotions. Technology often insulates the sender from the receiver. The talk show host can label a politician "idiot" because the politician is not in the studio — probably not even listening. But angry words are contagious. Listeners become infected. They apply the harmful word to other politicians as well. Soon, an entire class of public servants find themselves labeled "idiots." The political group is diminished. The infected listeners are diminished. And the nation is diminished.

Research shows that if we know a person — talk to him or her face-to-face — we are less likely to describe that person with harmful words. In today's complex world, we don't know, personally, most of those who shape our nation, our communities or our businesses. It's easy to direct harmful words in their direction. But all those who lead have friends, neighbors and families who sincerely believe they are good people.

Some hide angry words behind the screen of anonymity. Writers on blogs say things they would never say if required to sign their names. Spectators at sporting events scream angry words at referees. At a recent game, the referee made a call fans disliked. They booed and jeered. But the television replay showed the referee was right. One fan shouted, "Nice call, ref." And nearby spectators turned to stare at him as if to say, "How dare you speak the truth."

We hear criticism of so-called "politically correct" speech. The problem is not with the idea, but with the name. It has nothing to do with politics. It's all about common courtesy. For years, I used in speeches a joke where a child confuses the words "retired" and "retarded." The joke — aimed always at myself — never failed to bring laughter. But after one appearance, I received a letter from a man who said, politely: "I wish you wouldn't use the word 'retarded' so casually. We have a son who was born with Down syndrome, and we find that word offensive. Our son may be different, but he is not retarded." To my shame, it had never occurred to me that "retarded" might be a cannonball word to some — even though I had grown up with a gentle uncle with Down syndrome. I never used that joke again.

Dr. Oliver Wendell Holmes told his medical students that good doctors must "learn to round the sharp corners of truth." That's good advice for all of us. Take some of the angry, hateful, painful words out of our vocabularies and replacing them with more powerful expressions of friendship and hope.

In a book called "The Healing Heart," Norman Cousins wrote: "Words, when used by a doctor, can be gate-openers or gate-slammers. They can open the way to recovery, or they can make a person dependent, tremulous, fearful, resistant. The right words can mobilize the will to live. The wrong words can produced despair and defeat."

It is no different for all of us in all of our relationships. The right words can give a friend — or a stranger — peace, reassurance and joy. The wrong words can produce turmoil, doubt and pain. This time of year, especially, focus on words of peace, reassurance and joy. Instead of expensive Christmas cards or printed family narratives, send a short personal note. A sentence or two will do. Remind the recipient of something the two of you shared — an event, activity or experience. Tell him or her thanks for being part of your life. "Remember that fishing trip we took. We didn't catch anything, but we sure had fun. Thanks for being a friend." Those few words mean much more than any pretentious printed Christmas card.

You cannot buy kind words. But you can give them. And when you give away kind words, you still have those powerful, thoughtful, friendly, reassuring, positive trophy words to give again.

G. Donald Gale is president of Words, Words, Words, Inc. He was formerly editorial director at KSL. He earned a Ph.D. at the University of Utah and was awarded an honorary doctorate by Southern Utah University. E-mail: dongale@words3.com.

Thursday, December 06, 2007

D-News: Opposition grows against Nevada plant


Company wants to see coal-fired power in Mesquite region
By Nancy Perkins
Deseret Morning News
Published: December 6, 2007

ST. GEORGE — Opposition is mounting against a private company's plan to build a massive coal-fired power plant on 200 acres of federal land about 12 miles northwest of Mesquite, near Utah's border.

The proposed $1.2 billion Toquop Energy Project would generate 750 megawatts of electricity, enough to provide power to 75,000 homes in the Las Vegas and Phoenix area, according to the permit application filed by Sithe Global Power.

The company's original plan to build a natural gas-fired power plant changed to coal when gas prices escalated. A new environmental impact statement is now required, according to the Bureau of Land Management in Nevada.

Critics say the coal-fired plant would pollute the environment, contribute to global warming and create unnecessary health risks for residents of the region.

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Sunday, November 04, 2007

Democrats in Davis recruiting candidates



By Joseph M. Dougherty
Deseret Morning News
Published: November 4, 2007

FARMINGTON — Utah Democrats are gearing up for runs at every partisan seat that will be up for election in 2008, and they want lots of help.
"We're going to fill every legislative seat," said Rob Miller, vice chairman of the Utah State Democratic Party. "We're going to find the best names we can."

Miller is charged with heading up the recruitment of Democratic candidates in the most heavily Republican state and he said his mission is not a lost cause.

He points to Democratic governors Calvin Rampton and Scott Matheson Sr. as examples of the popularity Democrats have had in the past and he hopes to resurrect that popularity during the 2008 elections.

In Davis County, Miller will have his work cut out for him. In 2006, he and fellow Democrat Chris Martinez were defeated in races for two county commission seats, both of which went to Republicans.

In fact, a Democrat has not been elected to the County Commission since J. Dell Holbrook was elected in 1990 and served one term.

Both Miller and Holbrook recently told a group of local Democrats that their party would bring more accountability to the County Commission.

"We have languished for 12 years with no one holding office other than Republicans," Holbrook said in a plea to county residents. "If you don't want to run for office, help someone who will."

Miller said, "If Davis County were smart, it would be asking that man, J. Dell Holbrook, to run again."

One seat on the County Commission — the one held by commission Chairman Alan Hansen — is up for election in 2008.

Miller said he doesn't want to foster animosity between the two parties and invited a Republican, Bountiful resident Ron Mortensen, co-founder of CitizensForTaxFairness.org, to share ideas for tax reform in Davis County, such as urging officials to control spending and working with the Legislature to keep school districts from receiving property tax revenue.

"Just because we're in different parties doesn't mean we always have to have different opinions," Miller said.

Friday, September 21, 2007

D News: Hundreds honor Rampton


Turnout would have surprised 'The Governor,' mourners say
By Lisa Riley Roche
Deseret Morning News
Published: September 21, 2007

Several hundred Utahns lined up outside the Governor's Mansion on Thursday afternoon to pay homage to the late Gov. Cal Rampton, the state's longest-serving chief executive.

"It's a wonderful opportunity to just pay your deep respect, especially to someone who was so well thought of," former Rampton administration employee Gloria Hunt said after walking through the mansion's grand hall, where Rampton's flag-draped casket was placed. Hunt, who worked for what was then the state Department of Highways and now is employed by Gov. Jon Huntsman Jr., said Rampton would be surprised at the number of people who paid their respects.

"He was a very humble man," Hunt said.

Rampton's eldest living child, Janet Warburton, said her father would have questioned whether anyone would even recall his service to the state. "He'd say, 'Nobody remembers me any more. I'm an old man."'

But the service made it clear that Utahns have not forgotten the man known to most as simply "The Governor," a Democrat who served three terms from 1965 to 1977 and is credited with bringing the state into the modern era.

Huntsman offered the mansion as the place for his late predecessor to lie in state because the state Capitol is closed for a massive, multiyear renovation. Huntsman said he wanted "to share some of the governor's legacy right here in the mansion."

There is no state protocol for dealing with the death of a former governor, so Huntsman's staff tapped the knowledge of the White House in arranging the service. An honor guard of Utah Highway Patrol troopers and National Guardsmen accompanied the casket.

Rampton's youngest child, Vince, said the family was "grateful but somewhat overwhelmed" by the event. The last Utah governor to lie in state was Scott Matheson, in 1990, in the rotunda of the Capitol.

Former Salt Lake Tribune publisher Jack Gallivan, who grew up in the mansion, said the South Temple home was better for his longtime friend.

"It's a much warmer setting," said Gallivan, who was the first person to walk by Rampton's coffin.

Members of the Rampton family arrived with the body of the late governor at the mansion at 11 a.m. and spent time sharing memories with Huntsman and first lady Mary Kaye Huntsman before the mansion doors were opened to the public at noon for four hours.

Robb T. Benns Sr., whose late wife, Bernice, advised Rampton on education issues, said he came to remember a governor whose door was always open.

"He came back to touch base with the people," Benns said of the former governor. "He's touching base again."

Kirk Jowers, director of the University of Utah's Hinckley Institute of Politics, said Rampton's lying in state at the mansion helps put politics in perspective.

"These opportunities to remember our leaders are important, and they are unifying," Jowers said. "To have such a well-respected leader lie in state gives us another opportunity to remember the partisan divisions are not nearly so deep as they seem.

"I hope it gives us a chance to realize we truly are Utahns before we are Democrats or Republicans."

Rampton, who was in hospice care after suffering a stroke and earlier being diagnosed with cancer, died last Sunday at 93. Funeral services are set for 11 a.m. Friday at the Salt Lake Parleys LDS Stake Center, 1870 E. Parleys Canyon Blvd.

Photo of Craig Axford by
Several hundred Utahns lined up outside the Governor's Mansion on Thursday afternoon to pay homage to the late Gov. Cal Rampton, the state's longest-serving chief executive.

"It's a wonderful opportunity to just pay your deep respect, especially to someone who was so well thought of," former Rampton administration employee Gloria Hunt said after walking through the mansion's grand hall, where Rampton's flag-draped casket was placed. Hunt, who worked for what was then the state Department of Highways and now is employed by Gov. Jon Huntsman Jr., said Rampton would be surprised at the number of people who paid their respects.

"He was a very humble man," Hunt said.

Rampton's eldest living child, Janet Warburton, said her father would have questioned whether anyone would even recall his service to the state. "He'd say, 'Nobody remembers me any more. I'm an old man."'

But the service made it clear that Utahns have not forgotten the man known to most as simply "The Governor," a Democrat who served three terms from 1965 to 1977 and is credited with bringing the state into the modern era.

Huntsman offered the mansion as the place for his late predecessor to lie in state because the state Capitol is closed for a massive, multiyear renovation. Huntsman said he wanted "to share some of the governor's legacy right here in the mansion."

There is no state protocol for dealing with the death of a former governor, so Huntsman's staff tapped the knowledge of the White House in arranging the service. An honor guard of Utah Highway Patrol troopers and National Guardsmen accompanied the casket.

Rampton's youngest child, Vince, said the family was "grateful but somewhat overwhelmed" by the event. The last Utah governor to lie in state was Scott Matheson, in 1990, in the rotunda of the Capitol.

Former Salt Lake Tribune publisher Jack Gallivan, who grew up in the mansion, said the South Temple home was better for his longtime friend.

"It's a much warmer setting," said Gallivan, who was the first person to walk by Rampton's coffin.

Members of the Rampton family arrived with the body of the late governor at the mansion at 11 a.m. and spent time sharing memories with Huntsman and first lady Mary Kaye Huntsman before the mansion doors were opened to the public at noon for four hours.

Robb T. Benns Sr., whose late wife, Bernice, advised Rampton on education issues, said he came to remember a governor whose door was always open.

"He came back to touch base with the people," Benns said of the former governor. "He's touching base again."

Kirk Jowers, director of the University of Utah's Hinckley Institute of Politics, said Rampton's lying in state at the mansion helps put politics in perspective.

"These opportunities to remember our leaders are important, and they are unifying," Jowers said. "To have such a well-respected leader lie in state gives us another opportunity to remember the partisan divisions are not nearly so deep as they seem.

"I hope it gives us a chance to realize we truly are Utahns before we are Democrats or Republicans."

Rampton, who was in hospice care after suffering a stroke and earlier being diagnosed with cancer, died last Sunday at 93. Funeral services are set for 11 a.m. Friday at the Salt Lake Parleys LDS Stake Center, 1870 E. Parleys Canyon Blvd.

Photo of Craig Axford by
Several hundred Utahns lined up outside the Governor's Mansion on Thursday afternoon to pay homage to the late Gov. Cal Rampton, the state's longest-serving chief executive.

"It's a wonderful opportunity to just pay your deep respect, especially to someone who was so well thought of," former Rampton administration employee Gloria Hunt said after walking through the mansion's grand hall, where Rampton's flag-draped casket was placed. Hunt, who worked for what was then the state Department of Highways and now is employed by Gov. Jon Huntsman Jr., said Rampton would be surprised at the number of people who paid their respects.

"He was a very humble man," Hunt said.

Rampton's eldest living child, Janet Warburton, said her father would have questioned whether anyone would even recall his service to the state. "He'd say, 'Nobody remembers me any more. I'm an old man."'

But the service made it clear that Utahns have not forgotten the man known to most as simply "The Governor," a Democrat who served three terms from 1965 to 1977 and is credited with bringing the state into the modern era.

Huntsman offered the mansion as the place for his late predecessor to lie in state because the state Capitol is closed for a massive, multiyear renovation. Huntsman said he wanted "to share some of the governor's legacy right here in the mansion."

There is no state protocol for dealing with the death of a former governor, so Huntsman's staff tapped the knowledge of the White House in arranging the service. An honor guard of Utah Highway Patrol troopers and National Guardsmen accompanied the casket.

Rampton's youngest child, Vince, said the family was "grateful but somewhat overwhelmed" by the event. The last Utah governor to lie in state was Scott Matheson, in 1990, in the rotunda of the Capitol.

Former Salt Lake Tribune publisher Jack Gallivan, who grew up in the mansion, said the South Temple home was better for his longtime friend.

"It's a much warmer setting," said Gallivan, who was the first person to walk by Rampton's coffin.

Members of the Rampton family arrived with the body of the late governor at the mansion at 11 a.m. and spent time sharing memories with Huntsman and first lady Mary Kaye Huntsman before the mansion doors were opened to the public at noon for four hours.

Robb T. Benns Sr., whose late wife, Bernice, advised Rampton on education issues, said he came to remember a governor whose door was always open.

"He came back to touch base with the people," Benns said of the former governor. "He's touching base again."

Kirk Jowers, director of the University of Utah's Hinckley Institute of Politics, said Rampton's lying in state at the mansion helps put politics in perspective.

"These opportunities to remember our leaders are important, and they are unifying," Jowers said. "To have such a well-respected leader lie in state gives us another opportunity to remember the partisan divisions are not nearly so deep as they seem.

"I hope it gives us a chance to realize we truly are Utahns before we are Democrats or Republicans."

Rampton, who was in hospice care after suffering a stroke and earlier being diagnosed with cancer, died last Sunday at 93. Funeral services are set for 11 a.m. Friday at the Salt Lake Parleys LDS Stake Center, 1870 E. Parleys Canyon Blvd.

Photo of Craig Axford by Michael Brandy, Deseret Morning News Craig Axford, center, pauses before the casket of former Gov. Cal Rampton Thursday at the Governor's Mansion.

Thursday, April 26, 2007

Satan is alive and well and living in Utah County


Utah County GOP delegate links illegal immigration to Satan

By Deborah Bulkeley
Deseret Morning News
The devil is sticking his pitchfork into the nation's immigration politics.

At least that's what one of Utah County's Republican delegates thinks.

Don Larsen, a district chairman, has submitted a resolution equating illegal immigration to "Satan's plan to destroy the U.S. by stealth invasion" for debate at Saturday's Utah County Republican Party Convention."


Read more here!